I came across this saying from one of the Pregnancy and Infant Loss support groups on Facebook. This gives me a lot of peace. It’s a difficult thought but it’s so true for me. Some days I am not doing well. It sucks. I think about it all the time. For many of us a miscarriage is nothing, just a loss, no feeling of love attached to the fetus/baby but for other Mom’s it’s a death. For each individual it is their personal, different grieving process. No one experience is the same.
“Ask my Mom how she is, “I’m fine, I’m well, I’m coping”. For God’s sake Mom, just tell the truth just say your heart is broken. She’ll love me all her life, I loved her all of mine. But if you ask her how she is, she’ll lie and say she’s fine. I am here in Heaven. I cannot hug from here. So If she lies to you don’t listen, hug her and hold her near”…..(Grieving Mothers)
Hugs from here